Separating Business & Home Life
If you’re a home-based business owner, it could be difficult to manage your time. Since your office is located within your home, you tend to spend much more time working in your office than spending quality time with your family. There is that temptation to spend more hours on a project, and the worse case scenario is that you tend to think about your business all the time.
As a home-based business owner, I have been in situations where I have spent so much ti...
...me on business-related projects that my son has knocked on the door wondering if I was going to work all night. So personally, I have been guilty of this and it is very easy not to pay attention to how much time is spent in your office or working on projects.
Family and friends take advantage sometimes because you work from home you’re always available. They tend to drop by unexpectedly, or they call you on your business line instead of your residence line. When it comes to your family, make a conscious effort to dedicate time with them so that they feel as important as your business. If you have little children not quite school age, arrange a trip to the library, a matinee movie, or a trip to the park but try to schedule these outings at the same time every day or as your time permits in between client appointments.
Now, if you have a spouse, it is very important to allocate time alone with him or her. If your spouse is supportive, encouraging, and understanding of the time that’s dedicated to your business, sometimes you might take advantage of his or her understanding. On the other hand, if your spouse is resentful, you may have more problems than you bargained for. Keep communication open all the time. Another scenario would be that your spouse isn’t interested at all about your business venture. Find the right time to discuss your day-to-day schedules and projects. You should understand his or her needs as well.
It is important to talk to your spouse regarding what your business structure and hours will be prior to starting your home-based business. In the end, it will alleviate the ‘you don’t have enough time for me’ argument.
Article written by Yasmeen Abdur-Rahman of The Brownstone Workshop located in Cary, North Carolina. Yasmeen is a Lifestyle Entrepreneur Coach and Virtual Assistant. She provides coaching to entrepreneurs who are overwhelmed and stressed due to managing a business and family life. Contact Yasmeen at (919) 319-6271 or via e-mail at yasmeen033@aol.com or http://www.thebrownstoneworkshop.bigstep.com. If you would like to reprint this article, please keep the entire article intact and provide the author’s information.
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